Does My Ex Still Love Me? Or Not? 5 Ways to Tell
I know. You just can't help it. You catch yourself in a moment of loneliness or nostalgia and you start thinking about your ex, wondering if there are still any feelings for you. You wonder, "Is it possible? Or am I going to drive myself crazy wondering, "Does he still love me? Or Not?
Then, you become depressed, not because your ex doesn't still have feelings, but because you really don't know the answer. Unless you know the tell tale signs, there is no way you could possibly know. Before you drive yourself crazy, you need to know how to see the indications that your ex is still smitten.
Here's 5 Ways to answer the big question: "Does My Ex Still Love Me?":
Has your ex gone out of the way to find you? By phone? By text? By "bumping" into you? Probably your strongest indicator. You think? When your ex tries to keep you close, it's because they care about what's going on in your life.
Does your ex lend a hand when you need it? Unless your ex is just an outright Good Samaritan, responding to a plea for help, is another indication that your ex still cares. Be careful not to test this too often or your ex may see it as a ploy.
Does your ex talk about your plans? If so, it's possible that your ex is envisioning you in his plans. If your ex talks about future plans and includes you, there may be some vision of the two of you together again. You could encourage these types of discussions but, be careful not make assumptions or you could end up disappointed.
Does your ex remember you on special occasions (or any occasion)? It may only be a text or it could be a nice card. If your ex takes the time to remember you on any occasion, you can assume that you are in your ex's thoughts. Not only that, it's clear that your ex is afraid that you might not have them in your thoughts.
Has your ex mentioned the "good ol days"? If your ex fondly recalls the fun times in your relationship, it's a good indication that they're nostalgic for all that was good in your relationship. The trap here is if they suddenly slip into any of the negative aspects. While there is a time to talk about what went wrong, this isn't it. It's too soon.
Any one of these signs might be enough to make some assumptions as whether your ex still loves youl. Always try to confirm with a second or third indication. There is a likelihood that your ex is looking for signs from you.
Be cautious, however, because indications are just that. True feelings,after a break up, run very deep - they can be very mixed. Once you get an indication, you may just want to take the plunge and find out where your ex is at. Ask.
Brace yourself for the good or the bad. If it's a bad reaction, you're no worse off than you were before except that the wound has been reopened. If it's good, you need to be prepared for the next steps.
But wait! It's not enough to answer the question, "Does my ex still love me?". If you want your ex back, you may have just one shot at it. With so much at stake, don't go it alone. You need a steady, guiding hand - a coach. It was invaluable to me when I wanted to get back with my ex. Don't wait on this. Go to ReviveOurLove.com now. You'll be glad you did. And, Good Luck!
Elena Morgan is a Life Coach and Relationship Advisor who writes only about the journeys she has taken. She writes at http:ReviveOurLove.com




